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Priestly Celibacy - MPB Sunday, November 30, 2008
November 29, 2008

 

 
   
 

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Priestly Celibacy Is A Disciplinary Rule
 
You've probably heard this before:

"Priestly celibacy is unnatural. Further more it caused the child abuse scandal."

Many of those who never married were in religious life but most were not. To call not being married as unnatural will label the millions of people who did not get married, either by choice or by circumstance, as leading unnatural life.

Some might argue that those who did not get married have very low opinion of married life. Certainly, there are some who did not get married because of their low opinion of married life. But most, in fact, have a higher opinion of married life - marriage being a sacrament in the Catholic Church.

Celibacy and priesthood is a vocation that one is called to and chooses freely. Priestly celibacy enables the priest to devote their complete energies to God and to the service of His Church.

In 1 Cor 7:8 – 9

"Now to the unmarried and to widows, I say: it is a good thing for them to remain as they are, as I do,
but if they cannot exercise self-control they should marry, for it is better to marry than to be on fire."

Paul recommends that those who choose the religious life be like he was. Although this has been a disciplinary rule since the early Middle Ages, priestly celibacy is not a doctrine.

In the Eastern Rites married men can be ordained as priests, as was their custom from the early times. Once ordained, however, the unmarried priest may not marry. However, all monks of the Eastern Rites are celibate and the Eastern Rites bishops are always chosen from the monks, which mean that all Eastern Rites bishops are unmarried.

One argument against priestly celibacy can be found in Gn 1:28:

"God blessed them, saying: "Be fertile and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it. Have dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air, and all the living things that move on the earth.""

This passage however is a general precept for the human race and does not bind each individual. If it did, everyone who is unmarried, including Jesus, John the Baptist, and Paul, would be in a state of sin.

But what about 1 Tm 3:2?

"This saying is trustworthy: 2 whoever aspires to the office of bishop desires a noble task.
Therefore, a bishop must be irreproachable, married only once, temperate, self-controlled, decent, hospitable, able to teach,
not a drunkard, not aggressive, but gentle, not contentious, not a lover of money.
He must manage his own household well, keeping his children under control with perfect dignity;"

Opponents say this is further proof against celibacy. However, Paul did not say a man must marry to be a bishop, but a bishop cannot marry more than once. This rule prohibits a man to remarry after being widowed and does not order him to have at least one wife.

But is the Catholic church apostate according to 1 Tm 4:3?

"They forbid marriage and require abstinence from foods that God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and know the truth."

Certainly not. A Catholic man is free to marry, and he is not obligated to be a priest.

What about the scandal of child abuse by the clergy?

This is a grievous sin done by evil men and was not caused by celibacy. One who is prone to do evil will do evil regardless of whether or not he is celibate.

The roots of child abuse maybe traced back to when the rigid requirements and personality screening for those who choose to become priests were relaxed due to liberal ideas of inclusiveness.

The sad part of this is that those in the Catholic hierarchy appeared to be complicit to these horrible acts by not responding to the problem as they surfaced promptly and publicly.

   
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'On Christian Hope'
and Advent

by Archbishop of Denver Charles J. Chaput, O.F.M. Cap.

 

  The Most Rev. Charles Chaput is the Archbishop of the Catholic Archdiocese of Denver Colorado, USA.
   
 

Pope Benedict XVI released his new encyclical letter, “On Christian Hope,” Nov. 30, just two days before the beginning of Advent. Not surprisingly, the Holy Father’s timing was perfect because Advent, more than any other season of the year, is rooted in the virtue of hope.

For Catholics, the real new year begins not on Jan. 1, but on the First Sunday of Advent, the day when the Church begins her annual new cycle of Scripture readings and worship. The season of Advent, deriving from the Latin verb advenire, meaning “to come” or “to arrive,” has a two-fold purpose: first, to remind us of the birth of Jesus in Bethlehem and all that it implied for the salvation of the world; and second, to ready us for Christ’s Second Coming at the end of time as King and Judge of creation. Like Lent, Advent is a time of preparation. Also like Lent, Advent is a penitential season — but not in the same strict way. Rather, Advent embodies the words of the liturgy, which remind us that “we wait in joyful hope for the coming of our savior, Jesus Christ.”

Benedict’s new encyclical is a rich and challenging document. It’s not easily absorbed in one reading. But one of its most important lines can be found right in the opening sentences. The Holy Father reminds us that for Christians, the virtue of hope enables us to face the burdens of daily life, no matter how heavy. He writes that “the present, even if it is arduous, can be lived and accepted if it leads towards a goal, if we can be sure of this goal, and if this goal is great enough to justify the effort of the journ
ey” (1). Faith in Jesus Christ leads us to hope for eternal life. Christ’s life gives our lives meaning. If we really believe in Jesus Christ, we will have confidence in the future, no matter how bleak some days or some problems seem. For in the end, Jesus has already won our salvation and the happiness that comes with it.

The source of the word “virtue” is revealing; it comes from the Latin noun virtus, meaning “strength.” The virtue that Christians call hope is not a warm feeling, or a sunny mood, or a habit of optimism. Optimism, as the great Catholic novelist Georges Bernanos once wrote, has nothing to do with hope. Optimism is often foolish and naïve — a preference to see good where the evidence is undeniably bad. In fact, Bernanos called optimism a “sly form of selfishness, a method of isolating oneself from the unhappiness of others.”

Hope is a very different creature. It’s a choice; a self imposed discipline to trust in God while judging ourselves and the world with unblinkered, unsentimental clarity. In effect, it’s a form of self-mastery inspired and reinforced by God’s grace. “The highest form of hope,” Georges Bernanos said, “is despair, overcome.” Jesus Christ was born in a filthy stable and died brutally on a cross not to make a good world even better; but to save a fallen and broken world from itself at the cost of his own blood. Such is the real world; our daily world; the world of Christian hope — the world that Pope Benedict speaks to when he writes in his new encyclical that “all se
rious and upright human conduct is hope in action” (35) and “the true measure of humanity is [determined by our] relationship to suffering and to the sufferer” (38).

In the words of Benedict: “To suffer with the other and for others; to suffer for the sake of truth and justice; to suffer out of love, and in order to become a person who truly loves — these are fundamental elements of humanity, and to abandon them would destroy man himself” (39).

As we ready ourselves for the joy of Christmas this year, let’s live Advent well and remember why we’re supposed to be joyful. In the end, Christmas is not about gifts or carols or parties, though all these things are wonderful in their place. Christmas is about the birth of Jesus Christ, who brings meaning and hope to a world that needs redemption. In Him, and only in Him, is our hope.

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Render Unto Caesar: Serving the Nation by Living our Catholic Beliefs in Political Life by Charles J. Chaput (Author)
   
 

Our Faith: What you might want to know

The Blessed Virgin Mary

 

The Office of Catechism of the United States Congress of Catholic Bishops website puts our knowledge of the Catholic Faith to a test!

1. True or False. Because of her sin, Eve is not considered a proper anticipation of the role of Mary.
2. True or false. Because Mary was conceived without sin, she did not come under the condemnation we incurred from Adam and Eve, and so she had no need of redemption by Christ.
3. True or false. Mary, conceived sinless, remained without sin throughout her life.
4. The Immaculate Conception refers to:
a. the birth of Jesus from a virgin
b. the fact that Mary, due to her sinlessness, never had an impure thought
c. Jesus’ freedom from sin from conception onwards
d. the impregnation of Mary by the Holy Spirit
e. Mary’s freedom from all stain of Original Sin from her conception
5. True or false. The virginal conception of Jesus is most likely not an historical fact, but a theological addition to the Gospels that points to the uniqueness of Jesus.
6. True or false. After the virgin birth of Jesus, Mary, as it says in Scripture, had other children.
   
7. True or false. Mary is the symbol of the Church.
8. Choose none, any combination, or all. Why did God want His Son to be born of a virgin?
a. The Virgin Birth manifests God’s absolute initiative.
b. Because Jesus is the New Adam, who inaugurates the New Creation.
c. By the Virgin Birth, Jesus, the New Adam, ushers in the new birth of children adopted in the Holy Spirit through faith.
d. The Virgin Mary’s virginity is the sign of her faith unadulterated by any doubt.
e. It is the sign of the Virgin Mary’s undivided gift of herself to God’s will.
9. Which is true?
a. Mary is only the mother of Jesus’ human nature.
b. Mary is the mother of the second person of the Holy Trinity.
c. Mary is the mother of the human person Jesus, but not the second person of the Holy Trinity.
d. Mary is the mother of both the human person and the divine person.
e. None of the above.
10. Why was it fitting that Mary be "full of grace" in order to be the Mother of the Savior?
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The First Sunday of Advent

November 30, 2008

Be watchful! Be alert!
You do not know when the time will come.

   
First Reading from the Prophet Isaiah
Is 63:16b-17, 19b; 64:2-7
You, LORD, are our father, our redeemer you are named forever.

Why do you let us wander, O LORD, from your ways, and harden our hearts so that we fear you not? Return for the sake of your servants, the tribes of your heritage.

Oh, that you would rend the heavens and come down, with the mountains quaking before you, while you wrought awesome deeds we could not hope for, such as they had not heard of from of old.

No ear has ever heard, no eye ever seen, any God but you doing such deeds for those who wait for him.

Would that you might meet us doing right, that we were mindful of you in our ways!

Behold, you are angry, and we are sinful; all of us have become like unclean people, all our good deeds are like polluted rags; we have all withered like leaves, and our guilt carries us away like the wind.

There is none who calls upon your name, who rouses himself to cling to you; for you have hidden your face from us and have delivered us up to our guilt.

Yet, O LORD, you are our father; we are the clay and you the potter: we are all the work of your hands.

 
 
Responsorial From the Book of Psalms
Ps 80:2-3, 15-16, 18-19
  R. Lord, make us turn to you; let us see your face and we shall be saved.

O shepherd of Israel, hearken,
from your throne upon the cherubim, shine forth.
Rouse your power,
and come to save us.
R. Lord, make us turn to you; let us see your face and we shall be saved.

Once again, O LORD of hosts,
look down from heaven, and see;
take care of this vine,
and protect what your right hand has planted
the son of man whom you yourself made strong.
R. Lord, make us turn to you; let us see your face and we shall be saved.

May your help be with the man of your right hand,
with the son of man whom you yourself made strong.
Then we will no more withdraw from you;
give us new life, and we will call upon your name.
R. Lord, make us turn to you; let us see your face and we shall be saved.
   
 
 
 
First Reading from the Letter to the Corinthians
1 Cor 1:3-9
Brothers and sisters:
Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

I give thanks to my God always on your account for the grace of God bestowed on you in Christ Jesus, that in him you were enriched in every way, with all discourse and all knowledge, as the testimony to Christ was confirmed among you, so that you are not lacking in any spiritual gift as you wait for the revelation of our Lord Jesus Christ.

He will keep you firm to the end, irreproachable on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.

God is faithful, and by him you were called to fellowship with his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.

 
 
 
Reading From the Gospel of Mark
Mk 13:33-37
Jesus said to his disciples:
“Be watchful! Be alert! You do not know when the time will come.

It is like a man traveling abroad. He leaves home and places his servants in charge, each with his own work, and orders the gatekeeper to be on the watch.

Watch, therefore; you do not know when the Lord of the house is coming, whether in the evening,

or at midnight, or at cockcrow, or in the morning.

May he not come suddenly and find you sleeping.

What I say to you, I say to all: ‘Watch!’”

 
 

Suggested Readings

 
Render Unto Caesar: Serving the Nation by Living our Catholic Beliefs in Political Life
by Charles J. Chaput (Author)
“At a time when the ‘faith and values’ vote has never been more important, Archbishop Charles Chaput deftly explores the

intersection of morality, reason, and politics. This isn’t just a book for Catholics, but for anyone who cares about the state of America’s soul —and how that concern might shape the 2008 elections.”
John L. Allen Jr., NCR and CNN senior Vatican correspondent, Amazon

Happiness Is a Serious Problem: A Human Nature Repair Manual by Dennis Prager.

In this unique blend of self-help and moral philosophy, talk-radio host Dennis Prager asserts that we're actually obligated to be happy, because it makes us better people.

Praying With Frederic Ozanam (Companions for the Journey Series) - Paperback, by Ronald Cm Ramson (Author)
Praying With Louise De Marillac (Companions for the Journey Series) by Audrey Gibson (Author), Kieran Kneaves (Author)
Praying with Vincent de Paul (Companions for the Journey) 2004, by Thomas McKenna
 
 
The Rise of Christianity: How the Obscure, Marginal, Jesus Movement Became the Dominant Religious Force .... (Paperback) by Rodney Stark (Author)

From the Publisher
"... this account of Christianity's remarkable growth within the Roman Empire is already the subject of much fanfare.

"Anyone who has puzzled over Christianity's rise to dominance... must read it," ... Read the first page.

 
Living Liturgy: Spirituality, Celebration, and Catechesis for Sundays and Solemnities, Year A, 2008 (Paperback) by C.PP.S. Joyce Ann Zimmerman (Author), Thomas A. Greisen (Author), S.N.D. de N. Kathleen Harmon (Author), M.S. Thomas L. Leclerc (Author)

"Perfect for home use or to prepare for weekly liturgy . . . It includes help for the celebration, ideas for catechesis on the particular event, and ways to understand the readings more deeply. Finally, it includes sample questions from which priests, deacons, lay groups, ministers and others can jump off into deeper discussion."

 

Straight Answers, Answers to 100 Questions about the Catholic Faith by Ph.D Rev. William P. Saunders (Author)

Review by: Reverend William G. Curlin Bishop of Charlotte
Straight Answers offers Catholics a simple and direct response to the many questions concerning the Catholic Church. It spells out profound truths in very

simple language for all who seek a better understanding of their Faith. I highly recommend it for Catholics, both young and old.

 
The Power of Intention: Learning to Co-create Your World Your Way

From Amazon:
After years of spiritual study and reflection, inspirational speaker and 

bestselling author Wayne Dyer has emerged a highly esteemed teacher. His current message about tapping into the power of intention may sound like good old positive thinking: just stay focused on what you want, rather than focusing on the lack of having what you want. But the teaching here goes deeper than just controlling thoughts (although he does acknowledge that thought control is a surprisingly challenging and significant endeavor).

This book might help readers land a better job, but it's more relevant for those who are ready to detach from an ego-driven life filled with quick fixes of happiness and step into a more authentic, joyful, and spiritually fulfilling life. His core teachings speak to tapping into a universal source of energy that can also be called the "power of intention."

 

The Chariot of Israel: Exploits of the Prophet of Elijah 
THE CHARIOT OF ISRAEL: When Elijah was caught up to heaven, his disciple Elisha cried out, "the chariot of Israel, and its horsemen." Elisha was referring not to the chariot but to the prophet. This study of Elijah’s life will captivate you as it walks you through a pivotal period in Israel’s history, and illustrative maps will give you a better picture of the physical geography of this ancient land.

 
   

The First Book of Kings (Cambridge Bible Commentaries on the Old Testament)This volume of commentary on the New English Bible text of the First Book of Kings follows the pattern of the now well-established series on the Old and New Testaments. The main divisions of the text are those provided by the New English Bible itself, but these are further subdivided for the purposes of the commentary, which is printed in short sections following the relevant portion of the text.
Canon Robinson suggests that the editors of I Kings compiled their history in order to teach the Hebrews that their existence as Israel, the covenant people of God, depended upon their continuing loyalty to their own religious traditions, and their refusal to exchange them for the very different traditions of the Canaanites among whom they lived.
   
 
   

I & II Samuel: A Commentary (Old Testament Library)
First sentence in the book:
""THE BOOKS OF SAMUEL contain that part of the history of Israel which describes the foundation of the State, running from the close of the period of the Judges to the establishment of the united kingdom."
 
 
Read more about the Liturgical Year
 

The Origins of the Liturgical Year (Pueblo Books) by Thomas J. Talley (Author) The Rev. Dr. Thomas J. Talley, Professor of Liturgics at the General Theological Seminary in New York, is one of the leading liturgists in the country. He gives us a fresh examination of the complex history of the Liturgical Year.
 
The Cultural World of Jesus: Sunday by Sunday, Cycle C. (Bestseller! the Cultural World of Jesus: Sunday by Sunday) by John J. Pilch (Author)
Reader Review: The book by Pilch provides those who not only fill the pulpits across this country but also all interested in the cultural world in which Jesus lived with a lot of pertinent information that sheds light on a lot of areas that have been "muddled" in the past. Yes, I highly recommend this book. - James Mauldin
 

Learn more and read the Old Testament.

Preaching from the Old Testament by Elizabeth Achtemeier (Author) Reader Review: The author of these thirty-two short chapters begins and ends with the assumption that problems we experience with the Old Testament are our problem, not the Bible's. This subordinating of the Bible reader to the well-weathered book he holds in his hand opens doors, not to forced

harmonisations of problematic passages, but to fresh reappraisal of difficult texts on their own terms. - David A. Baer

 
The Navarre Bible: Pentateuch (The Navarre Bible: Old Testament) This volume helps you make the first five books of the Old Testament a vital part of your spiritual reading and practical growth in the Christian life. It contains the full English and Latin texts of these books, along with extensive and

faithfully Catholic commentaries. Like other volumes in the world-renowned Navarre Bible series, these commentaries draw on Church documents, the exegesis of Fathers and Doctors of the Church, and the works of contemporary spiritual writers — particularly St. Josemaría Escrivá, who initiated the Navarre Bible project.

 
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