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Making Memories - MPB Holy Family Sunday, December 28, 2008
December 26, 2008

 

 
   
 

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“You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
You cannot help the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer.
You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich.
You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves.” - Abraham Lincoln

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Making Memories

  Father Michael was again in his characteristic state of animation, or depending on your mood that morning, his state of agitation, during his sermon that Sunday.

He spoke of how as children we always look forward to the future. Of how we couldn’t wait for the next day; how we couldn’t wait for that special treat or present for our birthdays; how we couldn’t wait to rip open that Christmas present under the tree.

He observed that we were always wishing we were older so we could do the “fun” things adults did, whatever those were. We couldn’t wait to be able to drive; for girls, to be able to put on those make up; and boys, to be able to indulge in those vices that looked so cool, namely smoking and drinking.

Father Michael then flashed into the future and observed that as adults we reminisce how “good” the old times were. We look back with a hint of sadness and wished things never changed. We look back at how our children were when they were small and cuddly. We look back at how they took their first steps. How they took their first chance to drive a car. We look back when our daughter went to a date with “that guy.”

   
 
Now with the young ones looking forward to the future and wishing it would come sooner, and the adults looking back and wishing it never changed, Father Michael asked how many of us actually lived in the present.

When my son and daughter were small my wife and I took them to a park with a lot of open space to fly kites. We were all looking forward to that adventure.

 

  So there we were, out in the open with our children just a-buzz with excitement just as we were, putting two kites together, looking up to make sure the breeze would not miss our spot. And then were finally ready: My wife with our daughter waiting for that perfect breeze to launch their creation and I with my son to launch ours.

Then, with divine intervention a stiff breeze came our way and our kites were flying!  We heard their precious gasps as the breeze picked up the kites and held them afloat! We saw those looks of wonder at how such a flimsy invention could take to the air.

   
 
And then not even five minutes later with the children’s boisterous burst of  enthusiasm they declared: “Let’s do something else!”

And off they ran to the monkey bars leaving us with the kite strings!

With chagrin, we observed that conventional kite flying, after all, was like watching grass grow once they are up in air. Seriously, what else was there to do?

   
 

Was that the end of the experience? Did we not live in the present at that time? Of course we did.

Memories are like jewels made with bits and pieces of the present and strung up into a brilliant necklace for us to admire sometime in the future. These are what make us look to the past so longingly. And there is nothing wrong with admiring them.

What's wrong is to take those necklaces and re-live IN them to the exclusion of everything present.

So when someone asks you what to do next, make sure you tell them, "Come. Let us string up some memories."

   
 
   
 
 

Finding the true joy in Christmas
Our Redeemer is born to deliver us from sin and restore us to eternal life
by Archbishop of Denver Charles J. Chaput, O.F.M. Cap.

as published the Denver Catholic Register, December 17, 2008

   
  The Most Rev. Charles Chaput is the Archbishop of the Catholic Archdiocese of Denver Colorado, USA.
   
 
Each year in December, the noise, anxiety and party going of the season tend to obscure the reality we celebrate. But this year, in the midst of our country’s troubling economic problems and the uncertainty they breed, some of us may have a hard time finding any joy in Christmas.

It’s worth remembering that the world we know today is not so different from the world of the first Christmas.

For Mary, the Jewish teenager, there was nothing sentimental about being pregnant and unmarried in the Galilean hill country. She had her faith in God. She also had the protection of her betrothed. But whether she had the understanding of her local relatives and friends is another matter. Women of her day could be, and sometimes were, stoned for perceived adultery. The warmth from her cousin Elizabeth may not have been widely shared.

Nor could Mary’s story have been easy for Joseph. No matter how great his faith, no matter how vivid the angel’s message, no matter how good his heart, he still likely struggled with very human temptations to doubt and confusion. In fact, the Eastern Church captures his humanity beautifully in her traditional iconography of the Nativity. The icons often portray Joseph apart from the manger scene, turned slightly away from the mother and child, deep in thought.

The road to Bethlehem would have been dangerous and physically demanding. Bandits and brigands were common. The Roman occupiers could be brutal. The inability to find shelter at an inn would have been more than inconvenient; it would have been life-threatening. And few of us today can really imagine the squalor of giving birth in a stable or a cave.
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Render Unto Caesar: Serving the Nation by Living our Catholic Beliefs in Political Life by Charles J. Chaput (Author)
   
 
 

The Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph

December 28, 2008

   
First Reading from the Prophet Sirach
Sir 3:2-6, 12-14
God sets a father in honor over his children; a mother’s authority he confirms over her sons.

Whoever honors his father atones for sins, and preserves himself from them.

When he prays, he is heard; he stores up riches who reveres his mother.

Whoever honors his father is gladdened by children, and, when he prays, is heard.

Whoever reveres his father will live a long life; he who obeys his father brings comfort to his mother.

My son, take care of your father when he is old; grieve him not as long as he lives.

Even if his mind fail, be considerate of him; revile him not all the days of his life; kindness to a father will not be forgotten, firmly planted against the debt of your sins
—a house raised in justice to you.

   
or  
  First Reading from the Book of Genesis
  Gn 15:1-6; 21:1-3
  The word of the LORD came to Abram in a vision, saying:
“Fear not, Abram!
I am your shield;
I will make your reward very great.”

But Abram said,
“O Lord GOD, what good will your gifts be, if I keep on being childless
and have as my heir the steward of my house, Eliezer?”

Abram continued,
“See, you have given me no offspring, and so one of my servants will be my heir.”

Then the word of the LORD came to him:
“No, that one shall not be your heir; your own issue shall be your heir.”

The Lord took Abram outside and said,
“Look up at the sky and count the stars, if you can. Just so,” he added, “shall your descendants be.”

Abram put his faith in the LORD, who credited it to him as an act of righteousness.

The LORD took note of Sarah as he had said he would; he did for her as he had promised.

Sarah became pregnant and bore Abraham a son in his old age, at the set time that God had stated.

Abraham gave the name Isaac to this son of his whom Sarah bore him.

 
 
Responsorial From the Book of Psalms
Ps 128:1-2, 3, 4-5
  R. Blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways.

Blessed is everyone who fears the LORD,
who walks in his ways!
For you shall eat the fruit of your handiwork;
blessed shall you be, and favored.
R. Blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways.

Your wife shall be like a fruitful vine
in the recesses of your home;
your children like olive plants
around your table.
R. Blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways.

Behold, thus is the man blessed
who fears the LORD.
The LORD bless you from Zion:
may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem
all the days of your life.
R. Blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways.
   
or  
  Responsorial From the Book of Psalms
  Ps 105:1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 8-9
  R. The Lord remembers his covenant for ever.

Give thanks to the LORD, invoke his name;
make known among the nations his deeds.
Sing to him, sing his praise,
proclaim all his wondrous deeds.
R. The Lord remembers his covenant for ever.

Glory in his holy name;
rejoice, O hearts that seek the LORD!
Look to the LORD in his strength;
constantly seek his face.
R. The Lord remembers his covenant for ever.

You descendants of Abraham, his servants,
sons of Jacob, his chosen ones!
He, the LORD, is our God;
throughout the earth his judgments prevail.
R. The Lord remembers his covenant for ever.

He remembers forever his covenant
which he made binding for a thousand generations
which he entered into with Abraham
and by his oath to Isaac.
R. The Lord remembers his covenant for ever.
   
 
   
  First Reading from the Letter to the Colossians
  Col 3:12-21 or 3:12-17
  Brothers and sisters:
Put on, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if one has a grievance against another; as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do.

And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection.
And let the peace of Christ control your hearts, the peace into which you were also called in one body.

And be thankful.
Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, as in all wisdom you teach and admonish one another, singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God.

And whatever you do, in word or in deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Wives, be subordinate to your husbands, as is proper in the Lord.

Husbands, love your wives, and avoid any bitterness toward them.

Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing to the Lord.

Fathers, do not provoke your children, so they may not become discouraged.

   
or  
  Brothers and sisters:
Put on, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if one has a grievance against another; as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do.

And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection.

And let the peace of Christ control your hearts, the peace into which you were also called in one body.

And be thankful.
Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, as in all wisdom you teach and admonish one another, singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God

And whatever you do, in word or in deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

   
  First Reading from the Letter to the Hebrews
  Heb 11:8, 11-12, 17-19
  Brothers and sisters:
By faith Abraham obeyed when he was called to go out to a place that he was to receive as an inheritance; he went out, not knowing where he was to go.

By faith he received power to generate, even though he was past the normal age (and Sarah herself was sterile for he thought that the one who had made the promise was trustworthy.

So it was that there came forth from one man, himself as good as dead, descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and as countless as the sands on the seashore.

By faith Abraham, when put to the test, offered up Isaac, and he who had received the promises was ready to offer his only son, of whom it was said,
“Through Isaac descendants shall bear your name.”

He reasoned that God was able to raise even from the dead, and he received Isaac back as a symbol.

   
   
   
  Reading From the Gospel of Luke
  Lk 2:22-40 or 2:22, 39-40
 
When the days were completed for their purification according to the law of Moses, they took him up to Jerusalem to present him to the Lord, just as it is written in the law of the Lord, Every male that opens the womb shall be consecrated to the Lord, and to offer the sacrifice of a pair of turtledoves or two young pigeons, in accordance with the dictate in the law of the Lord.

Now there was a man in Jerusalem whose name was Simeon. This man was righteous and devout, awaiting the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him.

   
  It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he should not see death before he had seen the Christ of the Lord.

He came in the Spirit into the temple; and when the parents brought in the child Jesus to perform the custom of the law in regard to him, He took him into his arms and blessed God, saying:
“Now, Master, you may let your servant go in peace, according to your word, for my eyes have seen your salvation, which you prepared in sight of all the peoples, a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and glory for your people Israel.”

The child’s father and mother were amazed at what was said about him; and Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother, “Behold, this child is destined  for the fall and rise of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be contradicted
—and you yourself a sword will pierce—
so that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.”

There was also a prophetess, Anna, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher.

She was advanced in years, having lived seven years with her husband after her marriage, and then as a widow until she was eighty-four.

She never left the temple, but worshiped night and day with fasting and prayer.

And coming forward at that very time, she gave thanks to God and spoke about the child to all who were awaiting the redemption of Jerusalem.

When they had fulfilled all the prescriptions of the law of the Lord, they returned to Galilee, to their own town of Nazareth.

The child grew and became strong, filled with wisdom; and the favor of God was upon him.

   
or  
  When the days were completed for their purification according to the law of Moses, they took him up to Jerusalem to present him to the Lord.

When they had fulfilled all the prescriptions of the law of the Lord, they returned to Galilee, to their own town of Nazareth.

The child grew and became strong, filled with wisdom; and the favor of God was upon him.

   
 
 
 

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Render Unto Caesar: Serving the Nation by Living our Catholic Beliefs in Political Life
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“At a time when the ‘faith and values’ vote has never been more important, Archbishop Charles Chaput deftly explores the

intersection of morality, reason, and politics. This isn’t just a book for Catholics, but for anyone who cares about the state of America’s soul —and how that concern might shape the 2008 elections.”
John L. Allen Jr., NCR and CNN senior Vatican correspondent, Amazon

Happiness Is a Serious Problem: A Human Nature Repair Manual by Dennis Prager.

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"Anyone who has puzzled over Christianity's rise to dominance... must read it," ... Read the first page.

 
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Straight Answers, Answers to 100 Questions about the Catholic Faith by Ph.D Rev. William P. Saunders (Author)

Review by: Reverend William G. Curlin Bishop of Charlotte
Straight Answers offers Catholics a simple and direct response to the many questions concerning the Catholic Church. It spells out profound truths in very

simple language for all who seek a better understanding of their Faith. I highly recommend it for Catholics, both young and old.

 
The Power of Intention: Learning to Co-create Your World Your Way

From Amazon:
After years of spiritual study and reflection, inspirational speaker and 

bestselling author Wayne Dyer has emerged a highly esteemed teacher. His current message about tapping into the power of intention may sound like good old positive thinking: just stay focused on what you want, rather than focusing on the lack of having what you want. But the teaching here goes deeper than just controlling thoughts (although he does acknowledge that thought control is a surprisingly challenging and significant endeavor).

This book might help readers land a better job, but it's more relevant for those who are ready to detach from an ego-driven life filled with quick fixes of happiness and step into a more authentic, joyful, and spiritually fulfilling life. His core teachings speak to tapping into a universal source of energy that can also be called the "power of intention."

 

The Chariot of Israel: Exploits of the Prophet of Elijah 
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The First Book of Kings (Cambridge Bible Commentaries on the Old Testament)This volume of commentary on the New English Bible text of the First Book of Kings follows the pattern of the now well-established series on the Old and New Testaments. The main divisions of the text are those provided by the New English Bible itself, but these are further subdivided for the purposes of the commentary, which is printed in short sections following the relevant portion of the text.
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I & II Samuel: A Commentary (Old Testament Library)
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Learn more and read the Old Testament.

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