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Make Someone Happy!: Fifth Sunday of Easter - May 3, 2009
May 08, 2009

 

 


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  Something to Think About
 

Bringing Happiness

 
  The late great American singer and movie icon, pianist, comedian and actor, Jimmy Durante once belted out the classic "Make Someone Happy," which in the context of Mother's Day, is very appropriate.
   
 

Make Someone Happy

Make someone happy,
Make just one someone happy;
Make just one heart the heart you sing to.
One smile that cheers you,
One face that lights when it nears you,
One girl you're ev'rything to.

Fame if you win it,
Comes and goes in a minute.
Where's the real stuff in life to cling to?
Love is the answer,
Someone to love is the answer.
Once you've found her, build your world around her.

Make someone happy,
Make just one someone happy,
And you will be happy, too.

  Can we really make anyone happy?

Well, maybe. To a miserable person, or to one who thrives in being miserable (yes Victoria, there are people like that), this might be an impossibility, and certainly a challenge to those brave souls who try to change that particular outlook without medication.

But I know we can certainly bring great distress and unhappiness to anyone around us, so the reverse must be true that to the vast majority of us under the "normal" bell curve this is not only possible but most welcome.

Have you ever heard of, or seen, a CAVE man or woman? No I'm not talking remotely close to any Neanderthal. I'm talking about a person who is constantly Complaining About Virtually Everything. Anyone who complains about everything can cause a lot of misery to anyone around them.

You see, we know that the key to happiness of course, is gratitude. Those who are thankful for what they have are ultimately happier people and the whole world is better because of them.

But there is a fine print to this.

It takes a lot of work, practice and sincerity. To appear grateful is a step towards BEING grateful. BEING grateful is to say thank you without the usual "But ... " 

Let me explain. Have you ever heard of someone say "Thank you" to you and then say something like, "But that was not necessary." That just negated gratitude, because sincere gratitude is unadorned by explanations and those "But ..." phrases.

Each one of us can start this by stopping, I mean stopping right at Thank You. Why say in a thousand words what you can do better in two? Practice. Practice. Practice. And even if for the moment you do not really feel that grateful, APPEAR grateful and eventually that gratitude will take root.

But that is not all.

We have to be a grateful receiver of these "thank yous," too!

When someone says thank you, we should just smile and look them in the eyes, or with a gentle pat, say, You are welcome, or say, Nothing to it, or even, the pleasure is mine.

Non-verbal communications speak so much louder than words.

This may sound too simplistic but I know this can definitely make someone happy!

   
 

To our readers, Thank You.

BTW, "My Prayer Box" newsletter will had been published 6 years in June 14!

   
 

 

And to all, Happy Mother's Day!

   
 
   
 

Fifth Sunday of Easter

May 10, 2009

I am the true vine,
and my Father is the vine grower. - John 15:1

 

  First Reading From the Acts of the Apostles:
  Acts 9:26-31
  When Saul arrived in Jerusalem he tried to join the disciples, but they were all afraid of him, not believing that he was a disciple.

Then Barnabas took charge of him and brought him to the apostles, and he reported to them how he had seen the Lord, and that he had spoken to him, and how in Damascus he had spoken out boldly in the name of Jesus.

He moved about freely with them in Jerusalem, and spoke out boldly in the name of the Lord. He also spoke and debated with the Hellenists, but they tried to kill him.

And when the brothers learned of this, they took him down to Caesarea and sent him on his way to Tarsus.

The church throughout all Judea, Galilee, and Samaria was at peace. It was being built up and walked in the fear of the Lord, and with the consolation of the Holy Spirit it grew in numbers

 
Responsorial From the Book of Psalms:
Ps 22:26-27, 28, 30, 31-32
  R. (26a) I will praise you, Lord, in the assembly of your people.
or:
R. Alleluia.


I will fulfill my vows before those who fear the LORD.
The lowly shall eat their fill;
they who seek the LORD shall praise him:
"May your hearts live forever!"
R. I will praise you, Lord, in the assembly of your people.
or:
R. Alleluia.


All the ends of the earth
shall remember and turn to the LORD;
all the families of the nations
shall bow down before him.
R. I will praise you, Lord, in the assembly of your people.
or:
R. Alleluia.

To him alone shall bow down
all who sleep in the earth;
before him shall bend
all who go down into the dust.
R. I will praise you, Lord, in the assembly of your people.
or:
R. Alleluia.

And to him my soul shall live;
my descendants shall serve him.
Let the coming generation be told of the LORD
that they may proclaim to a people yet to be born
the justice he has shown.
R. I will praise you, Lord, in the assembly of your people.
or:
R. Alleluia.

   
 
Second Reading from the First Letter of John
1 Jn 3:18-24
  Children, let us love not in word or speech but in deed and truth.

Now this is how we shall know that we belong to the truth and reassure our hearts before him in whatever our hearts condemn, for God is greater than our hearts and knows everything.

Beloved, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have confidence in God and receive from him whatever we ask, because we keep his commandments and do what pleases him.

And his commandment is this:
we should believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and love one another just as he commanded us.

Those who keep his commandments remain in him, and he in them, and the way we know that he remains in us is from the Spirit he gave us.

   
 
  Reading From the Gospel of John:
Jn 15:1-8
 
 
Jesus said to his disciples:
"I am the true vine, and my Father is the vine grower.

He takes away every branch in me that does not bear fruit, and every one that does he prunes so that it bears more fruit.

You are already pruned because of the word that I spoke to you. Remain in me, as I remain in you. Just as a branch cannot bear fruit on its own unless it remains on the vine, so neither can you unless you remain in me.

I am the vine, you are the branches.

Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit, because without me you can do nothing. Anyone who does not remain in me will be thrown out like a branch and wither; people will gather them and throw them into a fire and they will be burned.

If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask for whatever you want and it will be done for you.

By this is my Father glorified, that you bear much fruit and become my disciples."

   
   
   

Principles of Good Character
from Character Education

 
 
Your character is defined by what you do, not what you say or believe.
   
Every choice you make helps define the kind of person you are choosing to be.
   
Good character requires doing the right thing, even when it is costly or risky.
   
You don't have to take the worst behavior of others as a standard for yourself. You can choose to be better than that.
   
What you do matters, and one person can make a big difference.
   
The payoff for having good character is that it makes you a better person and it makes the world a better place.
 
 
 
   
 

References

Render Unto Caesar: Serving the Nation by Living our Catholic Beliefs in Political Life by Charles J. Chaput (Author)
“At a time when the ‘faith and values’ vote has never been more important, Archbishop Charles Chaput deftly explores the intersection of morality, reason, and politics.

This isn’t just a book for Catholics, but for anyone who cares about the state of America’s soul —and how that concern might shape the 2008 elections.”
John L. Allen Jr., NCR and CNN senior Vatican correspondent,
Amazon

 
Happiness Is a Serious Problem: A Human Nature Repair Manual by Dennis Prager.

In this unique blend of self-help and moral philosophy, talk-radio host Dennis Prager asserts that we're actually obligated to be happy, because it makes us better people.

 
Praying With Frederic Ozanam (Companions for the Journey Series) - Paperback, by Ronald Cm Ramson (Author)
Praying With Louise De Marillac (Companions for the Journey Series) by Audrey Gibson (Author), Kieran Kneaves (Author)
Praying with Vincent de Paul (Companions for the Journey) 2004, by Thomas McKenna
 
 
The Rise of Christianity: How the Obscure, Marginal, Jesus Movement Became the Dominant Religious Force .... (Paperback) by Rodney Stark (Author)

From the Publisher

"... this account of Christianity's remarkable growth within the Roman Empire is already the subject of much fanfare. "Anyone who has puzzled over Christianity's rise to dominance... must read it," ... Read the first page.

Living Liturgy: Spirituality, Celebration, and Catechesis for Sundays and Solemnities - Year B - 2009 by C.PP.S. Joyce Ann Zimmerman (Author), Thomas A. Greisen (Author), S.N.D. de N. Kathleen Harmon (Author), M.S. Thomas L. Leclerc (Author)

"Perfect for home use or to prepare for weekly liturgy . . . It includes help for the celebration, ideas for catechesis on the particular event, and ways to understand the readings more deeply. Finally, it includes sample questions from which priests, deacons, lay groups, ministers and others can jump off into deeper discussion."

Straight Answers, Answers to 100 Questions about the Catholic Faith by Ph.D Rev. William P. Saunders (Author)

Review by: Reverend William G. Curlin Bishop of Charlotte
Straight Answers offers Catholics a simple and direct response

to the many questions concerning the Catholic Church. It spells out profound truths in very simple language for all who seek a better understanding of their Faith. I highly recommend it for Catholics, both young and old.

The Power of Intention: Learning to Co-create Your World Your Way

From Amazon:

After years of spiritual study and reflection, inspirational speaker and bestselling author Wayne Dyer has emerged a highly esteemed teacher. His current message about tapping into the power of intention may sound like good old positive thinking: just stay focused on what you want, rather than focusing on the lack of having what you want. But the teaching here goes deeper than just controlling thoughts (although he does acknowledge that thought control is a surprisingly challenging and significant endeavor).

This book might help readers land a better job, but it's more relevant for those who are ready to detach from an ego-driven life filled with quick fixes of happiness and step into a more authentic, joyful, and spiritually fulfilling life. His core teachings speak to tapping into a universal source of energy that can also be called the "power of intention."

The Chariot of Israel: Exploits of the Prophet of Elijah 
THE CHARIOT OF ISRAEL: When Elijah was caught up to heaven, his disciple Elisha cried out, "the chariot of Israel, and its horsemen." Elisha was referring not to the chariot but to the prophet. This study of Elijah’s life will captivate you as
it walks you through a pivotal period in Israel’s history, and illustrative maps will give you a better picture of the physical geography of this ancient land.

The First Book of Kings (Cambridge Bible Commentaries on the Old Testament)This volume of commentary on the New English Bible text of the First Book of Kings follows the pattern of the now well-established series on the Old and New Testaments. The main divisions of the text are those provided
by the New English Bible itself, but these are further subdivided for the purposes of the commentary, which is printed in short sections following the relevant portion of the text.

Canon Robinson suggests that the editors of I Kings compiled their history in order to teach the Hebrews that their existence as Israel, the covenant people of God, depended upon their continuing loyalty to their own religious traditions, and their refusal to exchange them for the very different traditions of the Canaanites among whom they lived.

   

I & II Samuel: A Commentary (Old Testament Library)
First sentence in the book:
""THE BOOKS OF SAMUEL contain that part of the history of Israel which describes the foundation of the State, running from the close of the period of the Judges to the establishment of the united kingdom."
Read more about the Liturgical Year
 

The Origins of the Liturgical Year (Pueblo Books) by Thomas J. Talley (Author) The Rev. Dr. Thomas J. Talley, Professor of Liturgics at the General Theological Seminary in New York, is one of the leading liturgists in the country. He gives us a fresh examination of the complex history of the Liturgical Year.
The Cultural World of Jesus: Sunday by Sunday, Cycle C. (Bestseller! the Cultural World of Jesus: Sunday by Sunday) by John J. Pilch (Author)
Reader Review: The book by Pilch provides those who not only fill the pulpits across this country but also all interested in the
cultural world in which Jesus lived with a lot of pertinent information that sheds light on a lot of areas that have been "muddled" in the past. Yes, I highly recommend this book. - James Mauldin

Learn more and read the Old Testament.

Preaching from the Old Testament by Elizabeth Achtemeier (Author) Reader Review: The author of these thirty-two short chapters begins and ends with the assumption that problems we experience with the Old Testament are our problem, not the Bible's. This subordinating of the Bible reader to the well-weathered book he holds in his hand opens doors, not to forced

harmonisations of problematic passages, but to fresh reappraisal of difficult texts on their own terms. - David A. Baer

The Navarre Bible: Pentateuch (The Navarre Bible: Old Testament) This volume helps you make the first five books of the Old Testament a vital part of your spiritual reading and practical growth in the Christian life. It contains the full English and Latin texts of these books, along with extensive and

faithfully Catholic commentaries. Like other volumes in the world-renowned Navarre Bible series, these commentaries draw on Church documents, the exegesis of Fathers and Doctors of the Church, and the works of contemporary spiritual writers — particularly St. Josemaría Escrivá, who initiated the Navarre Bible project.

 
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